This is the question of the century! I was on the phone today with a new client and she wanted know why "she keeps picking the wrong romantic partner". She's attracted to someone who is unavailable and the person that is dying to be with her just can't get their life into order. I expressed that it's really what is going on within her own consciousness and the energy that she is carrying as to why this keeps happening. The change really needs to begin within. We can only attract what is inside of us. There are a multitude of influences as well. Our "transgenerational" history, which can go … [Read more...]
Is Your Relationship Affecting Your Health?
Relationship stress can affect your health like any other health issue. Neuroscientist, Dr. Antonio Damasio, states that “feelings are mental experiences of body states which arise as the brain interprets emotions, themselves physical states arising from the body’s responses to external stimuli”. Emotions are a “physiological profile”. The emotions that one may be anchored to such as sadness, fear, anger, vulnerability, abandonment, guilt, shame, etc., can affect the body in a multitude of ways, ie. depressed immune system function, imbalanced neurotransmitter production (serotonin, gaba, … [Read more...]
Is Your Relationship a Band-Aid For Unhealed Wounds?
IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP A BAND-AID FOR UNHEALED WOUNDS? Back in January after listening to a few guided meditations on my laptop, my iTunes popped up and the song that started to play was “Clarity” by the group Zedd featuring Foxes (but sung by Michelle Chamuel from “The Voice”). I tried to stop it but for some reason it would NOT shut off. As I sat and listened, it was like hearing it for the first time. The chorus really popped out at me: “If our love is a tragedy….why are you my remedy? If our love’s insanity….why are you my clarity?” Relationships are one of the biggest challenges that we … [Read more...]
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